I am getting married tomorrow and was waiting for the cold feet to kick in. Still a no show. They say it happens to everyone, I'm starting to wonder why? What exactly is cold feet? A worry of never being able to walk away? A thought of never being able to touch another as you touch your mate? A wonder if you will love that person as you love them now? Wait, stop, hold the phone. Okay, none of this makes any sense. If you love the person enough to say yes when the ring was offered, or in the case of guys, love the girl enough to buy the ring. What would make you think that you were going to get a chance with anyone else when you asked or said yes. You pretty much sealed the deal then, now its just to make it public and legal. So what is the issue? If you love some one enough to pledge your undying love to them, why would you waiver?
So why does 'everyone' get cold feet? Why would they have doubts? I was told once that, to have even a shadow of a doubt meant that it was not to be. Why drag yourself through something if you have the doubt? Why say yes to the ring, or ask?
Okay so I guess the next part is why am I marrying him? Well, I could say the simple answer of "Because I love him." But I could live with him forever and not marry. Kinda crazy to think marriage is all for love. It is a deep part of it, but it's more than that. It's almost unexplainable, silly that I would write a blog on it and not explain, but that's how it is. Okay, I'll try.